Play helps us grow cognitively, physically, emotionally, and socially. It is a great way for families to interact with each other and be fully engaged. Many games we play teach us important life skills. Through play, we learn how to read social cues, we learn how to develop trust, and it helps to increase personal awareness. Play also has the ability to develop a sense of community and it is great for team building. Play allows us to loosen up, be curious, and most important of all… have fun!
“Simon Says”
This is an old classic, that helps children practice mindful seeing, mindful listening, and greater awareness. It’s good for children and fun for adults. All you need is some space to move around.
Once you finish the game, talk to your child(ren) about how hard or easy it was to follow the instructions and pay attention to the “Simon Says” at the beginning. Discuss the importance of paying attention and being present.
***A Fun twist on this game is to play “Yogi Says” and incorporate some yoga poses into the game.
“Egg, Chicken, Dinosaur!”
This is a fun and interactive twist on “Rock, Paper, Scissors”. Children and adults of all ages can play this game. It is meant to be played in complete silence. All of the communication you do is nonverbal, so you have to pay attention to the people you are playing with and read their cues.
“Bubbles, Sidewalk Chalk, Glow Sticks, and Bouncy Balls, Oh My!”:
If you have any of the above mentioned items at home, just pull them out and have fun! The important thing is to PLAY!!!! Here are some other great ideas for sensory activities that you can do to play and be mindful:
“15 Simple Sensory Activities that Teach Mindfulness” https://lemonlimeadventures.com/simple-sensory-activities-that-teach-mindfulness/
Outdoor Games:
Tag, Hide and Seek, Capture the Flag, Frisbee, Hacky Sack, Slip and Slide, etc. are all ways that you can play all while enjoying the weather and getting some Vitamin D.
Card Games:
Speed, War, Concentration, Solitaire, Memory, etc. are all great games that you can play and all you need is a deck of cards!
Board Games:
Now is the perfect time to be playing board games with your family. Here are a list of some all-time favorites:
Jenga Scrabble Scattegories Clue Chess Checkers
Monopoly Sorry Guesstures Charades Twister Apples to Apples
Win, Lose, or Draw Chutes and Ladders Candy Land The Game of Life
If you are in the market for some new games where the focus is on mindfulness, here are a couple of good places to start:
https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/mindfulness-games/
https://www.developgoodhabits.com/mindfulness_games_kids/
Change the Channel: This exercise is a great way to teach cognitive flexibility. There are times in our life where we focus on the negative and sometimes obsess over things that we cannot control. Sometimes we are grumpy and take things out on those we love. Sometimes we are frustrated and feel like we can’t do anything right. We have to train our brains to “change the channel” and take ourselves to a place or situation that helps us feel happy, safe, loved, strong, confident, and/or brings us a sense of calmness. The best way to do this is through visualization. It could be a beach, your bedroom, the mountains, cuddled up with your pet, etc. Below are a couple of videos that walk you through the process of “Changing the Channel” and having power of your own thinking
Three Minute Relaxation Exercise: This is a time to give our brain a break, so that we can relax, focus, and learn better. When you do a 3-minute relaxation, focus on your breath. Start by planting your feet firmly on the floor, close your eyes, be still, and be fully present in the moment. If you hear a noise, hear it, and then focus back on your breath and your mantra.
Positive Affirmations: It is important to have a mantra or a phrase that you can have in mind when you are taking time to use a relaxation technique. Phrases like, “I am loved”, “I am strong”, “I am smart”, “I can do this”, “I am centered”, “I am cared for” help us to anchor our thoughts. So, if our thoughts start to wander when we are relaxing, we can go back to this mantra.
Additional Meditation Videos:
“Peace Out Guided Meditation: Balloon”
“Breath Meditation”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvF9AEe-ozc#action=share
“The Butterfly Meditation”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mX4JBBIcBk#action=share
“Mindfulness Meditation to Help Relieve Anxiety and Stress”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fpiw2hH-dlc
Free Apps that focus on relaxation and meditation:
Insight Timer - Smiling Mind - Stop, Think, & Breathe - Calm
Try taking some time for yourself today. Rest. Relax. Breathe. Be Mindful. Be Kind to YOU!